Ste-pho with the Fo Fo, Running from the Po Po coz he is selling DVDs

A man once said ‘It doesnt matter what other people think of you……what matters is what you think of yourself’

obviously when u think about it, its in our human nature to care about what other people think

i guess this quote mostly talks more about relationships other than selfworth…because its how we relate to others that defines us. U think about how u see yourself and most of the time, well i guess u can do either of two things….

u can hide all the bad

or only show it

very rarely we have any middleground……

but what we think about ourselves isnt really who we are….dont you judge urself based on what u have done to others and what they think of u…..so what u think of yourself isnt who you are.

Its how other people see u…
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the thing is…..u can always change

even if u have done wrong…..and….it seems that u cant get back to the way it was…u can always change…

Another man said: ‘U never know how precious something is….until u lose it….’

if u have ever lost someone, u know how that feels….

in our life time we all have done things that we are not proud of…..and sometimes that cant be helped….but i think its not what we have done, that people remember..
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im not making excuses for those ppl who have done wrong…..im not making excuses for things ive done wrong…..

but whats important to me is how they left it……
..to hide away from it…do nothing..sweep it under the rug

..or..

..to show that your sorry…and really mean it

when i say show, i mean show, with words, with actions, with your heart…
because its after u lost it, u realise what u did wrong…what is gone…what u need to do to fix it…

only once you do that, u can maybe get back the precious thing u lost……or gain something even more precious….

trust….

dependace…

love…

but most importantly, u can gain a better…
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You….

and if u do….remember how precious it really is…….

Hey People =)

trying to help ppl is a funny, there can either be 3 outcome, well theres only been 3outcome for me….

its soo rare in this day and age to really effect a person….with all cliches in films and tele. seems to me most ppl dont even know who they are anymore….

1. u could be completely ignored….in this case, i think the best thing to do is to leave it up to the person…to deal with it…but in a way, sometimes this is the best thing to happen, ues u might think that they are just ignoring u, but that missed phone call, text, messenger, or a knock on the door can show them that u care, and that could be just enough..

2. u can really have an impact on someone. i would like to say that this is the most likely outcome but the truth is…its the least…. but once in a while u can really help……and if u really care bout the person, u know u have helped because u either smile in the end of it, or it hurts ur heart a lil bit because u had to sacrifice a bit of urself to help….lets just hope its the smile..

3. if u end up thinking these word.
“Was it worth trying?”

even after all you have done…..did it make a difference..? pouring ur life and soul into his/her problems, feeling what they feel, every emotion….every thought…..everything…..then having them say something, in a way that they never ment it to be heard..showing u

‘u didnt make a difference…..’

thats the worst…………..like u didnt make a difference….

in the end, i guess like 2% of us isnt looking to comfort the person, but for self worth….like u made a difference….a good difference…..but the other 98%….really want to help…….

i think everyone can save lives

it just depends on if the person we are trying to save…………wants to be saved

With people u care about……you would do anything to save them….right…?
and you try soo hard to find a way to help them in any way…

but remember this….if ur spending all your time trying to save a person……
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…to be with them longer…
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…the time your using could be time spent with them…….and you just being there, can save a friend..