Dont take things for Granted…..16/03/2008

A man once said ‘It doesnt matter what other people think of you……what matters is what you think of yourself’

obviously when u think about it, its in our human nature to care about what other people think

i guess this quote mostly talks more about relationships other than selfworth…because its how we relate to others that defines us. U think about how u see yourself and most of the time, well i guess u can do either of two things….

u can hide all the bad

or only show it

very rarely we have any middleground……

but what we think about ourselves isnt really who we are….dont you judge urself based on what u have done to others and what they think of u…..so what u think of yourself isnt who you are.

Its how other people see u…
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the thing is…..u can always change

even if u have done wrong…..and….it seems that u cant get back to the way it was…u can always change…

Another man said: ‘U never know how precious something is….until u lose it….’

if u have ever lost someone, u know how that feels….

in our life time we all have done things that we are not proud of…..and sometimes that cant be helped….but i think its not what we have done, that people remember..
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im not making excuses for those ppl who have done wrong…..im not making excuses for things ive done wrong…..

but whats important to me is how they left it……
..to hide away from it…do nothing..sweep it under the rug

..or..

..to show that your sorry…and really mean it

when i say show, i mean show, with words, with actions, with your heart…
because its after u lost it, u realise what u did wrong…what is gone…what u need to do to fix it…

only once you do that, u can maybe get back the precious thing u lost……or gain something even more precious….

trust….

dependace…

love…

but most importantly, u can gain a better…
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You….

and if u do….remember how precious it really is…….

3 Responses to “Dont take things for Granted…..16/03/2008”

  1. Jasy Says:

    hello tears..welcome to life.. ;_;

  2. Martha Says:

    wow stevo.. that jus says so much…

  3. Martha Says:

    im gna print this out nd put it on ma wall

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