Not really an Epithany, more of a thought….13/03/2008
Hey People =)
trying to help ppl is a funny, there can either be 3 outcome, well theres only been 3outcome for me….
its soo rare in this day and age to really effect a person….with all cliches in films and tele. seems to me most ppl dont even know who they are anymore….
1. u could be completely ignored….in this case, i think the best thing to do is to leave it up to the person…to deal with it…but in a way, sometimes this is the best thing to happen, ues u might think that they are just ignoring u, but that missed phone call, text, messenger, or a knock on the door can show them that u care, and that could be just enough..
2. u can really have an impact on someone. i would like to say that this is the most likely outcome but the truth is…its the least…. but once in a while u can really help……and if u really care bout the person, u know u have helped because u either smile in the end of it, or it hurts ur heart a lil bit because u had to sacrifice a bit of urself to help….lets just hope its the smile..
3. if u end up thinking these word.
“Was it worth trying?”
even after all you have done…..did it make a difference..? pouring ur life and soul into his/her problems, feeling what they feel, every emotion….every thought…..everything…..then having them say something, in a way that they never ment it to be heard..showing u
‘u didnt make a difference…..’
thats the worst…………..like u didnt make a difference….
in the end, i guess like 2% of us isnt looking to comfort the person, but for self worth….like u made a difference….a good difference…..but the other 98%….really want to help…….
i think everyone can save lives
it just depends on if the person we are trying to save…………wants to be saved
March 14th, 2008 at 9:44 pm
I Need A Hug..;___________; i dont feel very well..;_; but thank you..4 living..!